As a result of what I do people transform their minds, bodies, and spirits to think like a warrior in order to become a champion by releasing negative, destructive and unproductive habits to live a life of happiness, success, and greatness. I’m looking for corporations, businesses, colleges, and conferences who want to empower their students and employees to be Victors, not Victims. – Jillian “The Legitimate Fixer” Bullock, Transformation Coach and Speaker.
Your Past Doesn’t Dictate What Your Future Will Be – People make mistakes, have shortcomings, screw up, or they find themselves in pretty dire circumstances, but that doesn’t mean they can’t make a comeback and still follow their dreams. You’ll hear from Jillian Bullock and how she sunk to the depths of hell, clawed her way back, and ultimately transformed her life from a victim to a victor in her personal and professional life. Her story will move you to action.
Resilience: 20 Steps to Finding Your Fighting Spirit – Some people are born fighters, those who know how to kick butt no matter what stands in their way. Others need to learn how to find their fighting spirit in order to knock down obstacles and barriers or to come back from a devastating event, situation or experience.
How to Deprogram Negative, Toxic and Self-Defeating Behaviors, Choices, Attitudes, and Actions – If you are what you eat, then you are definitely what you think. Learn how to channel positive, uplifting, empowering messages to your brain and deprogram the negative self-talk and toxic messages that eat away at your greatness.
How to Become a Successful Human Being and it Has Nothing to Do With Money – Many people seek fame and fortune thinking that will solve all their problems. Once it is obtained many of those same people are miserable. Learn what it means to be a truly successful person.
Stop the Blame Game: Take 100% Responsibility for Your Life – There comes a time when you must take control of your life and stop blaming everybody – parents, spouse, teachers, pastor, friends, co-workers, etc. – for where you are in your life. You will learn how to start the process to acceptance of where you are now and how you can turn your life around.
Mental and Emotional Health – People often must deal with horrific, sad, unhappy, disappointing, and stressful events in life. These experiences can cause depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, and other mental health issues. To be successful personally and professional it is imperative that your mind and spirit be healthy. Learn what steps you need to take to overcome mental and emotional issues in order to thrive and be whole.
Find Your Passion, Live Your Dream at Any Age – Passion should be what gets you out of bed in the morning, knowing you are working toward living your dream. Lessons taught will be how you, despite your age, can find passion in life and use that to make your dreams a reality.
Why it’s Important to Fail in Order to Succeed in Business – Failure is a must if you want to succeed. Everyone has failed at one time or another – from professional athletes to the average Joe or Josephine. Without failure you cannot grow. Learn how to use failure to your advantage in order to succeed.
How to Be a Champion and Think Like a Winner – Winners in life have a certain mentality and that’s how they become champions. You must learn how to reset your mind in order to become confident, bold, fearless, and a winner.
Goal-setting and Preparation – It is one thing to have a dream, it is another to know how to turn that dream into a goal, then into reality. Learn what steps you must take through goal-setting that will prepare you for professional success.
Baby Steps Toward Greatness – Nothing happens overnight. With that in mind, the small, baby steps you put into motion are just as big as making a big jump. You will learn why it’s important to take baby steps to help ensure greatness.
How Being Healthy and Fit Will Prolong Your Life – Jillian will speak about the benefits of exercise and proper nutrition which will help prolong lives and the quality of life especially as people age.
How To Become Successful Personally and Professional Through Fitness – Studies have shown that there is a direct correlation between health and fitness and success in peoples’ career and personal lives. Jillian will speak upon how fitness can help transform not only a person’s body but their mind in order to obtain success.
FEMALE TEENAGERS AND WOMEN
The Psychology Behind Becoming a Victim – Although it has been said that no female deserves to be raped, sexually assaulted, or abused, (and that’s true), that doesn’t mean females shouldn’t be 100% responsible for their actions and decisions, especially when those choices can cause them harm or set them up to become a victim. This lecture will highlight the numerous ways females allow themselves to become easy targets, many times unknowingly, and how to change these behaviors.
Understanding the Predator - A man may look clean cut, be well-educated, wear expensive clothes, or foster a personality that is sweet, charming or loveable, but he could still be the next Ted Bundy. Jillian will arm women with information and tips on how to spot a man who is looking to do them serious harm emotionally or physically. These men include - The Sexual Predator, The Physical Predator, The Serial Killer, and The Stalker.
Protect Yourself: Safety and Preventive Measures – Situational awareness is the key to safety for girls and women. Most females don’t know how to spot danger in order to avoid it. In this lecture, Jillian will break down the steps to situational awareness at home, at work, on public transportation, at an event, or on the streets.
Safe Dating Tips - This topic is for girls and women, ages 15 and up. Dating is supposed to be fun, but it can end tragically if females aren't knowledgeable about the dating tips that will keep them safe.
RED Flag Warning Signs of an Abuser - Domestic violence comes in many forms – physical, mental, emotional, financial, and sexual. If you could have a crystal ball and see if the next guy you date was a gentleman or an abuser wouldn't you pay practically any amount of money for that information? During this topic, Jillian will be your crystal ball and give you tips and guidelines on how you can spot the RED flag warnings signs of an abuser before you get deeply involved.
Domestic Violence in the Workplace – (For employers and employees) On average, four to five women are murdered by their husbands or boyfriends each day in the United States and women experience two million injuries from intimate partner violence each year. Domestic violence can follow victims to work, spilling over into the workplace when a victim is harassed, receives threatening phone calls, is absent because of injuries or is less productive due to extreme stress. Domestic violence is a serious, recognizable and preventable problem, similar to other workplace health and safety issues that affect businesses and their bottom lines.
Domestic Violence: Leaving Your Abuser – For many domestic abuse victims, financial dependence is among their top reasons for staying in the relationship. They fear being homeless or living in poverty if they leave. Others express that their partners exert economic control to prevent them from leaving, e.g. keeping them from getting jobs, running up debt on their credit cards, restricting access to money, which threatens their future employment and financial security, and often leads many of them right back to their abusers. During this discussion, Jillian will break down the steps to achieving financial freedom before and after leaving the abusive relationship.
SPEAKING and PRESENTATION EXPERIENCE
- John P. Stevens High School
- Invisible Wounds Conference, Paul Robeson Center, Rutgers University
- Temple University
- Women Veterans Center
- Community College of Philadelphia, Student Veterans Club
- Philly Black List (Writers’ Group)
- Dress For Success, Pittsburgh
- Police Athletic League (PAL)
- Hannah’s House
- Chester Community Fair
- Environmental Protection Agency (EPA)
- Girls Scouts of America
- Beth Chaim Reform Congregation
- B’nai Israel Ohev Zedek
- Greater Philadelphia Film Office (Film Panel)
- PECO Energy
- Philly Black List